Girls, stop serving yourselves to the devil

temilolu okeowo new
temilolu okeowo new

I must commend your wisdom and high amplitude of understanding. Your intellectual prowess is simply extraordinary. But the most profound I must say is your teaching on chastity, inspirational and motivational teachings on leading a decent life. Your impact in the lives of single ladies and men is immeasurable. Through your teachings, you have transformed many lives and given many young people’s lives a meaning. You’re greatly blessed and awesomely graced and equipped for greater accomplishments and successes. May you not lose your reward.

This is to thank you for your chastity teachings which are boosting my life, Sometimes after praying and reading my Bible and the devil later brings discouragement in diverse forms, I will run to your Facebook posts and start reading them. I draw strength from them and constantly remind myself that there’s no better life than a life with Jesus. I met you ma’am just at the right time in my life. Thank you for being a blessing to me.

I am 18 years old, I have a boyfriend and I love him so much and he loves me because he usually does things that make me happy. I don’t want just a mere relationship with him; I want to be his life partner. I was a virgin before I met him. He asked for sex and I gave it to him because he was not happy when I refused at first. Please what should I do because he’s asking for it again? I don’t want to have sex with him again and I don’t want to lose him. Please I need your advice because I don’t want to lose him or make him unhappy!

Why would you love anyone above yourself, above your glorious destiny? Why would you please anyone to the detriment of your present and future? If only churches slammed the consequences of ungodly sex in your faces at every single service, the power in the word of God would pierce your hearts and open up your spiritual understanding by fire by force and envelope you with the spirit of God which would make you detest every form of sin.

How can anyone who is heavily yoked with the spirits and bondages of multiple, in fact uncountable sexual partners, make anything meaningful out of life and not go from trouble to trouble? How can one discover one’s life partner, destiny helper and helpmate when he/she is already confused and derailed because of an ungodly soul-tie?


The point is once a life is polluted or contaminated through sexual intercourse with the wrong person, I tell you it only takes the mercy of God for such destiny to re-align with God’s divine agenda.

At 18, where has my young lady reached in life for her to feel her boyfriend is God’s gift and the best that would come her way? How naïve and myopic of her. Perhaps she’s not even in the university yet. We meet more and more people every day, and will always get carried away by different personalities. She has a few years to spend in the university where she would meet the good, the bad and the ugly. She will observe the mandatory, one-year National Youth Service Corps scheme and meet more exciting and interesting guys yet the world at large is waiting for her; church, work and social functions, I could go on and on!

My sweeties, what’s the rush? Do you know just that single act of sex could introduce uncontrollable lust into one’s life and before you are 22 you find out you have slept with 30 or more guys? How can you accommodate such rot in your destiny? Because your other friends are engaging in it and seem to be having a ball doesn’t mean you’ll have a ball as well nor will they get away with it. The earlier you realise that we all have different destinies which carry diverse weights spiritually, the better! May the evil wise men of your father’s house not catch up with you in Jesus name!!! Stop serving yourselves cheaply to the devil.  If you can’t honour God with your body as we’re told in 1 Corinthians 6:20, you might as well not expect much honour from man! May you not lose that which should give you the best life ever to a guy/man whose destiny or destination you know nothing about in Jesus name!

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